Thank you Lauren for writing this article. I appreciate your perspective. While I will own the consequences of my actions I am sensitive to finding "Fault" as it is an indication of judgment. Whether that judgment is right or wrong is a different argument. For me, forgiving myself pf the judgment I did demonstrate is the first sign of coelescing which is what I read that you are asking for here. I certainly hope so. Is that what the winner professed? I accept the result and will live and work to support your ideal of moving on. I'm just wondering how many of us there actually are?
Bless you!
Reverend Bruce S. Noll