Tim, I would say this a bit differently based on my experience. Give yourself some credit here. Though the mentor is a critical element with which I agree, I see him/her as a mirror so you can see your reflection of the pattern either in an alternate way or with more clarity.

YOU still gave to make the decision to shift.

I really enjoy your writing!

A believer in Lifelong Learning and Collaborative Wisdom, remembering Who I AM through essay, story, and poetry. Listening for narratives that nurture Life.

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