Well done Charlene!
I would like to add, if I may, that one who truly loves themselves has the capacity to vulnerably examine their beliefs. They are able to say, “you know, that just isn’t true for me anymore. That belief I had when I was younger doesn’t serve me any more.” In other words, I care enough about myself to think and feel independently and I am worthy enough to know that I am enough…just the way I am!
PS — the quotes by Maya Angelou about change and Louise Hay about loving ourselves are priceless and staples in my self communications.